Notice of warning I'd just like to inform you all that if I become slightly anti-social, abusive or really emotional over the next few days it's because I just found out that last night my grandfather died from a cancer which originally started to grow in his voice box, he went in for radiotherapy about a month and a half ago, things started to get better since, but in the last 4 days his body could no longer accept the treatment and the worst happened over night. I just wanted to inform you all as I am known to do some immature, anti-social and offensive things when I get upset over something which has a key part to my life. It might be stupid but the last time I felt like this was when my first cat went missing and never came back. I'll try to control myself the best I can but at the moment, I have no idea what to do.
Re: Notice of warning I lost a grand parent like a year ago so I know how you feel bud Best of luck until you get better
Re: Notice of warning I was just saying in case I do something that I never intended to do. The only person to honest, who might understand this would be shad because I've flipped on him before when I was in a similar state of mind. And I would take a timeout, if I didn't live in the middle of nowhere with damn all to do most of the day, especially as my friends all live 4/6 towns away from me and all they would be doing is saying WHATS UP and making it worse.
Re: Notice of warning Can't feel any empathy can you? My condoleanses mate, hope you feel better soon. Erik
Re: Notice of warning aye dont push urself into doing something you dont wanna do, just take some time out. theres aload of ppl here to talk to if u need em for a nice chat =) hope you feel better.
Re: Notice of warning Sorry to hear that, grieving takes time and people deal with it in different ways... Maybe go to a gym and repeatedly beat the shit out of a punchbag? Works.
Re: Notice of warning Perhaps works for you, but not everyone. Take a time out. Relax and think of the future. Best of luck to you in these troubled times
Re: Notice of warning I find it better to annoy people online for some reason, might just be a ego thing.